Sunday, June 28, 2015

What is going on in Armenia? #ElectricYerevan, Protests in Song and Dance


Thank you, Edgar Harutyunyan Photography for making this video public

Armenians protest in song and dance.  Gosh, give them whatever they want - as long as they keep up this singing and dancing, so awesome and fun to watch. I love the power and happiness involved.  This is when I love my culture.

Here's the story of why Armenians came out in full power to protest in the streets of Yerevan:
http://civilnet.am/2015/06/28/dancing-singing-electric-yerevan/#.VZBSe_ks1kq

Sunday, June 21, 2015

A Father Remembered

Every year I repost this little tribute I wrote about my father:

My dad, with me and my sister




Our house was modest, gray, with two juniper trees ornately framing our abode.  My father meticulously tended to his garden.  We were never wont for flowers or beautiful shrubbery.  In spite of the fact that my father's hours as the owner of a box manufacturing company kept him at the warehouse during the summer until nearly 10 p.m., he managed to raise the most bountiful garden in the whole neighborhood.  It was his pride and joy.  It was a pleasure to turn down our street and see the luscious green lawn, clipped just right, framed by rows of flowers my father would painstakingly grow from seeds.

My father was a good man, but I did not know it then.  I was spoiled; I had no idea what it was like to work as hard as he did, to come from what he had come from. 

I considered my father an aloof, insensitive man.  Truth is, he was anything of the sort.  He was raised in a time and culture so far from my life; he may as well have come from Mars.  I did not understand then how important heritage was.  To me it was trivial and played a very small role in my life.  I did not understand culture and customs.  I was American first and foremost, my parents were immigrants and that did not apply to me. 

Sitting on my mother's lap, listening to her talk on for hours in her native tongue, I could feel her chest rising and waning to the tone of a language I would never learn, a culture I would resist.  And now I have come back, full circle.  Back to the dusty, barren valley floor that burnt my toes in the summer and gave me Tule fog in the winterhttp://www.scientificamerican.com/article/loathed-by-motorists-loved-by-fruit-trees-californias-tule-fog-fades-away/.  Twenty years of wandering and exploring made me no smarter than the day I left.  Maybe I was smarter then.  Maybe I should have seen the wisdom in my father, his kindness, and his generosity.  

There was the time when he attempted to sell our neat, tidy little cottage home to an African-American woman who had been given money for her property so a freeway could be built in its place.  Some things can stick out in one's memory as if it were yesterday.  It is her face that I will never forget.  First was exhilaration, a face that could not contain her happiness at being able to have such a pleasant and well-cared-for home with an elaborate garden full of flowers.  But that would not last.  Word spread like wildfire and neighborhood meetings soon popped up in our living room as if some important figure were planning a visit.  To the neighbors, this was just as important. 

I would sit amongst them and observe.  A child's vantage point in a sea of adult wisdom.  “What about my husband's flowers?” our neighbor's wife was heard to say.  What was so important about flowers, I mused.  “Our property values will go down," they continued on.
 
In the end, my father bent to their demands.  I was there when he broke the news to the woman with the happy charcoal-colored face and saw the smile fade to such disappointment I could feel it all the way across the room.  And then there was my father's face.  His downcast eyes let me know he completely understood the heartbreak she felt.  She left then, fading into the horizon and I never saw after that, but I never forgot.

My father never breathed a word of animosity to any race different than his own.  I would sit for the longest time studying the wedding portrait of an African-American family with wide, bright, milk-colored smiles framed by dark skin that accentuated this brilliance.  In the picture neatly planted among these tall, dark figures, stood my very white father, all of 5'2", with one of the biggest smiles on his face that rivaled the smiles of those around him.  Clearly, he was as happy and proud to be there as they were to have him as their guest.  The owner of the packing company they no doubt worked for in some capacity.  I would imagine that this was the marriage of some foreman's son, or his daughter, or a packinghouse worker.  I never knew for sure.  I was fascinated by this picture and studied it for hours it seemed.  I was enthralled by the differences, the mystery of a race kept secret to me, a people so far away from my life.  So far, in fact, I may as well have been looking at a National Geographic picture.

In the 1950s, African-Americans were regulated to live in their own community, on the west side of town, over the railroad tracks.  In my neighborhood, where I shopped, where I went to school, I would never see such a person.  They were foreigners in their own country.  Who established these boundaries was never explained to me.

My father must have understood this dilemma; our own people were chased from their homeland due to racial bigotry and religious intolerance.  Our families' histories were rife with suffering and stories of lost and dying relatives separated from each other, succumbing to starvation and many other cruel and inhumane treatments by their oppressors.  But the saga continued even in this land of freedom they cherished so much. 
 
Some years after my father passed away, I discovered a piece of my family's history that had been strangely kept from me.  Our race, the Armenians, also had a section of town where they all lived.  With a prospering business, our family could well afford a new home in the more luxurious northern part of town, and God knows my father had earned it.  Yet in the final process my father was stopped from completing his own dreams by a small piece of paper and by men of small minds.  Written into the mortgages of this affluent part of town was a small clause that excluded ownership by certain races.  Sandwiched between various undesirables were: “...and peoples of the Ottoman Empire", a clear statement that Armenians were not allowed in the newly built suburb and were not wanted as neighbors.  We would be barred from living there until the 1960s when the civil rights movement was in full sway.  Newer houses omitted this clause.  I understood then why my father was so tenderhearted to the woman of another color. 

It was strange that I was never told about this roadblock in our lives.  The children's innocence must be protected, I assume.  I was not to learn hate.  My parents never breathed a word of disrespect to the land that had offered them freedom and a place of refuge.

I hope I have learned these lessons from my father and can pass them on to my own children.
 Happy Father's Day, Dad

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

The Adventure Begins

Getting ready to tool around the lake
Hubby piloting the little motor boat
Finally, we are out and about in our RV.  We got a job working in an RV park and are able to enjoy the beautiful lake nearby.

Lunch















My hat enjoying the beautiful scenery

Thursday, June 11, 2015

Do you know these people?

This is an amazing video of Armenian or part-Armenian composers, artists, sports figures, developers, etc.


Did you know all these people are Armenian? I didn't. They forgot my cousin, Aram Kalashian, who was a design artist for Towle Silver Manufacturing Co. and has a design patented after his name: the 1940 "Old Mirror": https://www.dma.org/…/aram-kalashi…/old-mirror-pattern-spoon    
Not sure why System of a Down http://www.systemofadown.com/ was not mentioned.  But a decent video anyway.

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

My families' stories are on-line

I discovered today that the two books I spent on my families genealogy are online!  In 2011 I had submitted them to the University of Michigan, Armenian Studies Program and then forgot about it.  When I checked today, I found they had put them online.  Wow - so happy - Here's the link
It's under digital books:
http://www.ii.umich.edu/asp/resources/librariescollections/aspcollection/digitalmediaacquisitions_ci